Article by: Lucie, Femvie ambassador
I started taking hormonal contraception in high school; all my friends were taking it, and it seemed like the best solution to my problems. Suddenly, menstrual pain didn't bother me as much, I wasn't afraid of unwanted pregnancy during my studies, and my gynecologist spoke very highly of it. Although, looking back, I realize she never explained to me how hormonal contraception actually works.
"I wanted to learn to work with my cycle and live in harmony with it."
When I stopped contraception after six years, I swore I would never take it again. I had all the risks in my head, and it terrified me. I was shocked by how many women voluntarily suppress the natural processes in their bodies without realizing how hormonal contraception works. Many of them may not even know that bleeding during hormonal contraception is not a real menstruation but a so-called pseudomenstruation – bleeding caused by a drop in hormones.
After stopping, I wanted to learn to work with my cycle and live in harmony with it. I enjoyed finding out more and more about how to give my body the best care. But months passed, and cycle problems kept getting worse despite my efforts. I didn't know what I was doing wrong. And what was worse, doctors couldn't answer my question about what was happening to me and why I was suffering so much. The only suggested solutions were hormonal contraception again, or pregnancy. I didn't want either; I wanted to understand my body, not silence it again. After a very long and exhausting journey full of trivialization, the cause finally became clear – endometriosis.
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Endometriosis is a chronic inflammatory disease in which tissue similar to the uterine lining grows outside the uterine cavity. The misplaced tissue, just like the lining in the uterus, grows and thickens during the menstrual cycle. This triggers an inflammatory reaction and often leads to unpleasant symptoms, including chronic pelvic pain. Endometriosis is currently a disease for which there is no cure. Treatment therefore consists of suppressing the symptoms of the disease and improving the quality of life for women. |
After the first laparoscopy, I adopted a strict regimen, in which I placed my full trust. I refused the offer of hormonal treatment; I believed that if I gave my body everything it needed, it would start to heal.
My second laparoscopy aimed to remove all lesions, I saw it as my stepping stone. Everything bad would be gone, I would take care of myself as best I could, it would surely get better…
"The first period after surgery arrived, and it was a massacre."
But in the end, everything turned out differently. Some lesions could not be removed, recovery was extremely difficult, I was on a very restricted low-residue diet for a month after bowel resection, and my anxiety returned. I collapsed like a house of cards. I left the hospital with progestogen hormonal treatment. At first, I was reluctant to start it, but eventually, I agreed on my doctor's recommendation. I only managed to take it for a week; I felt terribly sick to my stomach. After this experience, I didn't want to put anything else into my body.
But then the first period after the operation came, and it was a massacre again. I believed that after the removal of most lesions, everything would improve. But it was perhaps even worse than before the procedure. And the worst part of it all was that this one period caused a large endometrioma to form on my ovary.
"I felt like I had failed, that I simply couldn't help myself."
I was living through a huge horror. At the endocenter, I heard a prognosis that scared me so much that I agreed to further hormonal treatment. This time, it was a classic pill-based treatment, administered continuously.
At first, I felt like I had failed, that I simply couldn't help myself. But at the same time, I fully admitted the power of this disease for the first time and started looking at the whole thing from a different perspective. I felt stronger because I was able to open myself up to another treatment option. And with that came new hope that maybe things would finally get better.
The pills ultimately worsened my sensitive digestion even more. But the vaginal ring, which is also a combined form of hormonal contraception, suited me. I have been on this treatment for a year now, and during that time I have realized that hormonal contraception certainly has its rightful place in pharmacies, but as a treatment. I disagree with how commonly it is prescribed without sufficient explanation. It seems disturbing to me that so many women take a pill daily without knowing how it works or what risks it carries.
Personally, I've come to the conclusion that before taking any medication, I need to weigh the benefits and potential risks. In the case of endometriosis, hormonal contraception is currently the lesser evil for me than endometriosis itself. This may change over time, but at this moment, this is the path that makes the most sense to me.
And why am I writing about this here? Because I believe that more information about hormonal contraception should be provided so that users take it consciously.
This article is based on the author's personal experience and is not intended as medical advice. If you are experiencing similar issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. Every body is different and requires an individualized approach.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know if I have endometriosis?
Endometriosis is characterized by severe painful menstruation, pain during intercourse, fatigue, and digestive problems. The only way to definitively confirm it is through laparoscopy. If the symptoms limit your daily life, consult a gynecologist.
How long does it take to get a diagnosis?
The average time from the first symptoms to a diagnosis of endometriosis in the Czech Republic is 7–10 years. Many women are dismissed for a long time with the argument that painful menstruation is normal.
Can endometriosis be treated naturally?
Endometriosis cannot be completely cured, but symptoms can be naturally alleviated with an anti-inflammatory diet, dietary supplements, exercise, and stress reduction. Natural support does not replace medical care but can significantly improve quality of life.
Are organic menstrual products better for women with endometriosis?
Yes. Conventional tampons and pads can contain pesticides and chemicals that irritate sensitive tissue. Femvie's organic cotton products are certified and free of harmful substances.
